Relationship Notifier

v1.0.1· Updated Nov 11, 2026· 31 installs

Notifies you when a friend, group chat, or server removes you.

What it does

  • Tells you when a friend removes you, or when someone withdraws the friend request they sent you.
  • Tells you when you are removed from a server, but not when the server is only down for an outage, or when you stop previewing a server you never joined.
  • Tells you when you are removed from a group chat.
  • Stays quiet about the removals you make yourself: removing a friend, rejecting a request, leaving or deleting a server, or leaving a group chat.
  • When Discord opens or reconnects, it reports what changed while it was closed, compared with what it saw last time. Each account keeps its own record.
  • Each notification is a toast with the server, group or user's picture. Notifications about a person have a View Profile button.
  • A port of Vencord's RelationshipNotifier.

Settings

  • Notify When: Friends, Friend Requests, Servers and Group Chats, all on by default.
  • Offline Removals reports removals that happened while Discord was closed. On by default.
  • Persistent Notices keeps each notification on screen until you tap OK. Off by default.

Differences from Vencord

  • Discord mobile has no desktop notifications or notice bar, so notifications are Unbound toasts. Persistent Notices stands in for Vencord's notice bar.
  • If this Discord build does not say which servers are in an outage, servers missing while Discord was closed are not reported, so an outage never shows up as a removal. Live removals are still reported.
  • The record of your servers, groups and friends is saved under Unbound/Data/relationship-notifier/ in Discord's documents folder instead of Discord's desktop storage, so offline removals start counting from the first time the plugin runs.